Summer Blues: Seaside Colors for Your Home

The days of summer slip quickly by if we don’t take the time to celebrate sunshine, warm breezes, and light that lingers into evening. Whether you find yourself summering on the beach, relaxing at the lake, or enjoying life in the city, bringing summer blues into your home can give you the feeling of being seaside all year long.

There’s no color scheme more heavenly than blue and white: from the open ocean accented with crisp white sails to the summer sky dotted with white clouds. As many as half the people around the world say blue is their favorite color! Blue has also been documented as being the most soothing, restful color, making it perfect for bedrooms.

Blue pigment from the earliest days of human civilization was prized almost as highly as gold. A bride must have something blue. Blue flowers are coveted by gardeners almost above all others. Artists use sweeps of blue in nautical paintings that soothe and enchant at the same time.

Objets d’art and treasured collections can be used to add blue and white accents to almost any style of home. One of my favorites is Chinese export porcelain. These classic pieces are the quintessential blue and white collectible, and have been for hundreds of years.

Blue and white porcelain found its way to Nantucket Island, once the center of the whaling industry, as ballast on ships or in trunks brought home by sea captains and sailors.

Blue and white porcelain is particularly striking when used as a container for flowers. Any shape that holds water can become a beautiful vase. Bowls can also be filled to stunning effect with blue hydrangeas,

or with shells collected from the beach.

I’ve repurposed blue and white ginger jars into lamps, giving antique pieces new life while adding historic interest to a room.

Blue and white together lightens the somber tone blue can take on by itself. Even in nature, blue is often paired with other colors: blue jays are splashed with white, the peacock is mixed with green, and for the blue-footed booby, Mother Nature decided blue feet were enough,

Whether the blue is sapphire or navy, the white ivory or alabaster, the beauty of blue and white transcends seasons and years.

On the island I watch the azure sea, white-capped waves rolling to shore, and I am captivated by blue and white once again.

As we begin the dog days of summer, Frank and I are enjoying reading with the two newest members of our family: Bichons Chloe and Maggie. Frank and I are enjoying all the dog days! We hope you are, too.

 

 

 

For Love of a Dog

There’s so much we gain when we choose to love a dog–barking at the delivery people, chew bones hidden under the cushions, muddy pawprints, and a disinclination to go out in the dark alone, especially when it’s cold or raining. We also gain unconditional love from a deeply generous heart that can teach us so much if we’re paying attention.

Dogs teach us how to love, with a single minded devotion and a desire for our companionship that is hard for any person to match. When you have a good dog in your life, you have many opportunities to practice being a better human.

 

 

When we meet them for the first time, we look into their eyes to see if they’re the one who will become a treasured member of our family. They know before we do, but they wait for us to catch up.

 

 

They begin teaching us right away, but they let us think we are teaching them.

 

 

As they grow older, they let us practice being patient with little accidents, taking slower walks, and washing their favorite blanket before bedtime.

 

 

And at the end of their lives, they ask us to practice being brave as they show us  how to say goodbye.

 

 

We lost our beautiful G.G. two weeks ago, She was once one of a trio of Bichons in our lives: Ellie, Tuffy and G.G. were the precious heartbeats at our feet, as Edith Wharton used to say about her little dogs. G.G., our Gingham Girl named for the gingham ribbon tied around her neck when we first met her, was the youngest of the three, and the last to leave us.

Saying goodbye does not improve with practice, unlike other lessons from our dogs.

 

 

A dear friend, Dr. Bob Goldstein from Earth Animal in Westport, Connecticut, sent me this poem when G.G. passed. I want to share it with you.

 

 

“We who choose to surround ourselves with lives

even more temporary than our own

live within a fragile circle easily and often breached.

 

 

“Unable to accept its awful gaps,

we still would live no other way.

We cherish memory as the only certain immortality

never fully understanding the necessary plan.”

(From “The Once Again Prince”/Separate Lifetimes by Irving Townsend)

 

 

Rest in Peace. G. G.

We remember what you taught us.

G.G.’s marker is in the pathway to Nantucket Animal Hospital. 

A Connecticut Christmas

 

There’ll be parties for hosting, marshmallows for toasting and caroling out in the snow… I couldn’t bring you all to my neighborhood holiday fete, so I decided to bring the party to you.  Welcome to my house, and let’s share a Connecticut Christmas together!

 

 

Come in, and let me take your coats. It’s warm inside–my husband, Frank, made a fire, and my father, Bob, is standing by at the bar. We have champagne to start the evening. This is a celebration!

 

 

Make yourselves at home. I love Christmas pillows, don’t you? I had these custom made for a home on Nantucket, and I look forward to getting them out every year. Reminding myself to be M-E-R-R-Y is a very special part of my holiday traditions!

 

 

One of my favorite things about decorating for the holidays is adding splashes of Christmas crimson and red throughout the house. Ten months of the year, I opt for soothing neutrals: the white of sandy beaches, the soft beige of driftwood, the soothing blues of the ocean. But once November arrives, I bring out the red ribbon and of course, the red and green stockings.

 

 

I love the warmth of a red tablecloth, too.

 

 

I hope you’re hungry! We’re serving shrimp with cocktail sauce,

 

 

brie en brioche, assorted mini quiche, pigs in a blanket (everyone’s favorite!), pumpernickel with crudites and dip,

 

 

mini lobster rolls, and mini crab rolls with lemon dill aioli. Yum. (The toothpicks are homemade!)

 

 

Dessert is special Christmas cupcakes,

 

 

and white Bichon puppy cupcakes–they look just like our two little Bichons, G.G. and Tuffy.

 

 

And of course, Christmas cookies!

 

 

Don’t forget the chocolates…a nod to Nantucket with chocolate whale truffles from Sweet Inspirations on the island. Better take one now–they go fast!

 

 

I love the old-fashioned Christmas touches

 

 

With children’s toys to evoke the true joy of giving

 

 

And a little Russian flavor for my dad…

 

 

There’s plenty of time for relaxing by the fire

 

 

before it’s time to say goodbye.

 

 

The next morning, we’ll all wake to a snowy winter wonderland!

 

 

and I’ll enjoy a morning cuddle with my two tired little helpers, G.G. and Tuffy.

 

Have a happy, healthy holiday season!